Episode 110 - 'Adolescence' & The Need for Conversations with Boys & Men w/ Ben Hurst

In this episode of the Over the Bridge podcast, the hosts engage in a profound and expansive discussion with Ben Hurst, Director of Facilitation at Beyond Equality and TEDx speaker, on the complex themes surrounding masculinity and the societal constructs that shape male behaviour. The conversation explores the impact of toxic masculinity, the educational challenges in addressing these issues in schools, and the nuances of everyday sexism. The group also delves into parenthood, particularly the role of fathers in shaping healthy masculinity in their sons, and the importance of critical conversations about gender norms, emotional regulation, and accountability. Highlighting insights from the Netflix series 'Adolescence' and the necessity for systemic educational reform, the dialogue provides a comprehensive look at how different societal factors contribute to the development of young men and the collective responsibility to foster change.00:00 Welcome to Over the Bridge Podcast02:07 Special Guest: Ben Hurst04:29 The Impact of the Netflix Series 'Adolescents'06:17 Challenges and Opportunities in Addressing Masculinity09:37 The Role of Education in Addressing Masculinity19:44 The Debate on Showing 'Adolescents' in Schools29:36 Challenges in Addressing Gender Stereotypes30:32 Building Critical Thinking in Kids31:08 Complexity of Nuanced Shows for Young Audiences32:45 Tailoring Conversations for Different Groups37:14 The Role of Facilitators in Education46:08 Importance of Reflective Parenting51:48 Depiction of School Environments in Media01:03:20 Managing Conflict and Teaching Kids01:03:52 Lessons Learned from My Dad01:06:36 Respect and Role Modeling01:13:31 Everyday Sexism and Privilege01:23:35 Accountability and Forgiveness01:30:35 Closing Thoughts and Farewells